The quickest and most accurate way of telling if someone loves you secretly but is yet not opening up about her emotions is by the way they behave in your presence. If you see they are comfortable and relaxed without any efforts at appearing to be a different version of themselves, they truly see you as their safe place. Here are 15 clear signs that show a woman feels comfortable in your company even if she doesn’t yet say it clearly
She Doesn’t Filter Her Personality Around You
When a woman is comfortable around you she lets down her guard. She may have built walls around her heart and authentic personality due to past heartbreaks, but with you she is truly and unapologetically herself. She feels at ease as she feels emotionally safe when it’s you she is with. She is not masking her true self.
She Feels No Pressure To Impress You
When she knows you won’t judge her, mock her, or criticize her for her humor, her authenticity and her feelings she shares a different level of comfort with you. She becomes deeply attractive and honest as there is no pressure on her to pretend a certain way to impress you as she believes you like her for who she is not a perfect illusion of hers.
She Shares Her Real Mood Honestly
You can tell how relaxed she is in your company when she doesn’t hide her mood swings. You can tell when she’s tired, anxious, excited, or unusually quiet. She doesn’t fake joy when she is down. Being emotionally honest is one way to know someone deeply values you and feels a strong and genuine connection with you.
Silence Between You Feels Easy, Not Awkward
Comfortable silence is a language of love itself. When she doesn’t talk just to fill the silence it conveys a deep meaning she truly enjoys your presence, so forcing a conversation is not on her agenda. There’s no fear of losing you if she doesn’t connect through talk in quiet moments.
Her Body Language Appears Loose And Natural
Relationship experts have given a big hint to instantly know if she feels comfortable in your presence. Her body language and posture are the clearest nonverbal indicators. She will have relaxed shoulders, open posture, and the overall atmosphere is not tense.
She Talks About Everyday, “Unimportant” Things
When a woman has truly fallen for a man, there will be signs. She will talk about absolutely anything not because she talks unnecessarily but because the comfort you bring to the table makes her want to keep talking to you as she genuinely feels relaxed sharing her inner world with you.
She Initiates Interaction Without Hesitation
She doesn’t shy away from striking up a conversation with you first. She calls, texts, or initiates discussions without overthinking. This means you have offered her a great level of comfort and ease at an emotional level that is why she feels safe reaching out.
She Can Laugh Freely, Even At Herself
Comfort and connection are manifested as genuine hearty laughter that she shares with you. She doesn’t even hide her inside jokes or humor about herself from you, she is okay being silly and goofy around you.
She Expresses Opinions Without Fear Of Conflict
Feeling comfortable and emotionally safe means she doesn’t think twice before disagreeing with you over your perspective or opinions that differ from hers. With you she is never a people pleaser as she feels she can be honest and transparent and she will still be cherished by you.
She Allows Physical Proximity Naturally
Another very prominent sign is how she prefers physical proximity to you whether it’s seen as sitting close, leaning in to listen closely to you, or a gentle affectionate touch on the hand. This physical closeness signals emotional comfort.
She Maintains Soft, Steady Eye Contact
Comfortable eye contact is her way to show you she feels warm and pleasant when she is in your company. She is not overcome with overthinking or anxiety rather she’s fully present and engaged. It shows her deep trust in you.
She Can Be Quiet Or Low-Energy Around You
She is under no emotional pressure to constantly entertain you or put up a pretense of joy when she is truly not feeling happy. Being quiet, calm or exhausted in your presence means she doesn’t feel scared being real with you.
She Opens Up About Past Experiences
A woman who trusts you will trust you with her secrets, her vulnerabilities, her past trauma and her goals and interests. She shares her most cherished personal memories or life lessons giving you a peek into her inner world that she rarely opens to anyone.
She Teases You Playfully
Light teasing or humor to uplift your mood, shows her ease with you and emotional security. She just wants to set a smile on your face and nothing makes her happier than knowing she is the reason behind your happiness.
She Stays Present Instead Of Distracted
A partner who loves you will give you distraction free presence. Her minimal phone use, active listening to understand your words, and genuine attention to get to know you better all signal towards her feeling grounded and comfortable with you.
Final Thoughts
True comfort is never flashy or pretentious. It’s quiet, warm, calm, and natural. When a woman feels emotionally and physically safe in your presence around you, she lets her guard down and opens the door to her inner world to you. You will see this comfort in her conversations, her tone, her body language and the way she doesn’t pretend to impress you, all these signs reflect trust, safety, and ease, these components are the foundation for any strong and deep connection. Pay close attention to how she behaves consistently when she is around you, not just one-offs or isolated moments of interaction and you will know where you stand in her life.
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