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15 Tips for Building a Shoe Collection You Can Be Proud Of

Updated on August 26, 2025 by TMM Staff · Clothing and Style, Shoes

A well-lit, organized closet with shelves and drawers holding high-end shoes, purses, and accessories.
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A well-curated shoe collection can get you far in every area of your life: First dates, job interviews, vacations, weddings, and everything in between. Great shoes don’t just complete the outfit; they carry you through some of the best moments and milestones of your life. The right collection should reflect who you are and where you’re going.

If you don’t have a selection of shoes you absolutely love, here’s everything you need to know to build a collection that’s versatile, personal, and built to last.

Table of Contents

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  • 1. Make an Inventory of What You Have
  • 2. Consider Your Lifestyle and Needs
  • 3. Think About Your Personal Style
  • 4. Do Your Research
  • 5. Prioritize Quality Over Quantity
  • 6. Understand Materials
  • 7. Take Occasions Into Account
  • 8. Express Yourself
  • 9. Invest in Quality Storage
  • 10. Clean Your Shoes Regularly
  • 11. Rotate What You Have
  • 12. Don’t Sleep on Secondhand Finds
  • 13. Stay Updated on Trends
  • 14. Know When to Let Go
  • 15. Take Your Time

1. Make an Inventory of What You Have

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If you already have plenty of pairs of shoes in your closet, go through each pair one by one and be honest with yourself. Do you see yourself wearing any of these in the future? Are there duplicates? Be ruthless. You’ll probably notice trends–colors you’re drawn to, silhouettes you overbuy, pairs you never wear. This process is less about decluttering and more about clarity. You can’t build a strong collection if you don’t know your starting point.

2. Consider Your Lifestyle and Needs

A close-up of two elegant white high-heeled shoes.
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The second point of consideration when building a quality shoe collection is considering your needs and lifestyle. Are you walking a lot during the day? Do you work in a corporate office or mostly from home? Do you live somewhere with seasons? Do you love going to the mall or the park? These little details shape what you actually need. The goal isn’t to have a hundred shoes; it’s to have the right ten. A good collection aligns with your actual day-to-day, not a fantasy version of it.

3. Think About Your Personal Style

A person wearing light blue and white floral flats stands close to a person in brown dress shoes.
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If you’re already pretty confident in your personal style and the way you express yourself, you’re halfway there. You already have a sense of what works and what doesn’t. 

But if not, don’t stress–this part can actually be fun. Take note of whose style you admire, and keep a folder of inspiration. Go to Pinterest and type in a vibe along with the word “shoes” (ex. dark academia shoes, cottagecore shoes, etc.). The shoes you buy should match your vibe, not someone else’s. You want pieces that enhance your outfits, not clash with them or make you feel like you’re in a costume.

4. Do Your Research

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The next step is to do some thorough research on what makes for good shoes. What types of materials age well? Which brands are worth your money? Are there differences in construction you should care about? A little knowledge goes a long way. You don’t need to become a cobbler overnight, but knowing the basics will keep you from falling for gimmicks. Trust: The more you learn, the less likely you’ll impulse-buy something you regret.

5. Prioritize Quality Over Quantity

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One of the worst things you can do not just for your wallet but also for your mental health is to buy every cute pair of shoes that appears on your For You page. It’s easy to get caught up in trends, but fast fashion shoes rarely last and usually just clutter your space. Instead, invest in pieces that hold up over time. Fewer pairs that look and feel amazing are way more satisfying than a dozen that fall apart by the third wear.

6. Understand Materials

A pair of monk-strap shoes, possibly made of suede, sit on a surface with a sewing machine in the background.
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Gaining insight into the science behind shoes and the materials they’re made from can totally change the way you shop. Know the difference between real leather and PU. Understand when suede works, and when it doesn’t. Learn what makes rubber soles better for traction and when crepe might be a good look. The more you understand what you’re buying, the more you’ll appreciate each pair, and the better your collection will age.

7. Take Occasions Into Account

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What types of events do you usually attend? Do you go to weddings a lot? How about work conferences? Do you go to church every Sunday? These moments all require different footwear, and your collection should have range. Having a solid pair for formal events, casual hangs, active days, and spontaneous nights out makes getting dressed easier. Think of shoes as a toolkit, wherein every tool has its purpose.

8. Express Yourself

A person in a pink outfit holds a woven bag filled with oranges while wearing bright pink platform heels.
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Like every other aspect of your outfits, your shoes also have to express your creativity, your energy, your personality. That could mean bold colorways, interesting silhouettes, or unexpected textures. The key is to pick things that feel like you. Even if you’re more minimalist, there’s still room to play: Contrast stitching, matte finishes, a cool sole. Don’t just follow what’s popular. Wear what makes you feel powerful, grounded, and yourself.

9. Invest in Quality Storage

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Shoes need good care and maintenance, too. That starts with where and how you store them. Leaving them in a pile at the bottom of your closet is a quick way to ruin your favorites. Invest in clear bins, a proper rack, or at least keep the original boxes if you can. Use shoe trees for structure, especially for leather pairs. It’s not about being overly precious; it’s about protecting the investment you made in yourself.

10. Clean Your Shoes Regularly

A brush and a tin of shoe polish sit on a wooden surface, ready for shoe cleaning.
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When you research, make sure to look into cleaning and care instructions as well. We don’t necessarily need to baby our shoes, especially if they’re made of genuine leather, but consistent cleaning can extend their life a lot. Keep a small kit at home: brush, wipes, polish, maybe even a suede eraser. Think of it like skincare; just five minutes of effort every so often keeps things looking fresh and feeling good.

11. Rotate What You Have

A flat lay of several brown and green leather and suede shoes and boots arranged on a cream-colored cloth.
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Once you’ve curated a small but strong collection, wear your shoes on a rotation. Not only does this prevent premature wear, but it also keeps your outfits feeling fresh. Give your sneakers a rest day. Let your boots breathe. Alternating pairs also gives you the chance to explore different sides of your style more regularly. The goal isn’t to have shoes that sit in your closet untouched; it’s to actually enjoy them.

12. Don’t Sleep on Secondhand Finds

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If you’re eyeing luxury brands, vintage pairs, or limited editions, secondhand shopping is where it’s at. Sites like ThredUp, Grailed, Poshmark, and even local thrift stores can be goldmines. Yes, you’ll have to dig–but when you find that one rare pair for a fraction of retail? There’s no better feeling. Plus, it’s more sustainable, which makes your collection not just stylish but responsible, too.

13. Stay Updated on Trends

A woman with dark hair sits on the floor next to her bed, holding a pair of white sneakers.
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But you don’t need to chase them! Being aware of trends can help you make smarter style decisions, even if you don’t buy into every single one. Maybe you’ll spot a trend that actually aligns with your personal vibe or gives you a fresh take on something you already own. Use trends as inspiration, not instruction. That way, your collection stays current and true to you.

14. Know When to Let Go

A single, old, torn shoe lies on a sandy beach.
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Sometimes, there are pairs that will just never be able to be restored, no matter how hard we try, or they no longer match who we are today. And that’s okay. Holding on to shoes that hurt your feet, don’t fit, or just aren’t your style anymore only weighs you down. Be willing to donate or sell when the time is right. Letting go makes room in your wardrobe for something better–perhaps a pair you’ll actually use.

15. Take Your Time

A woman holding a white sneaker, looking at a wall of shoes in a store.
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Like many things in life, creating a shoe collection you can be proud of is more of a marathon, not a sprint. Think of it as a journey you can enjoy, one thoughtful purchase at a time. It’s okay if it takes months (or even years) to get it just right. The best collections aren’t rushed. They’re lived in, worn with intention, and built to last.

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